I’ve come to realize that God is reflected in our relationships, whether it’s a good relationship or a challenging one. Take the time to really look at your relationship with your mate or friends, especially the challenging parts, and you will typically see one of two things. The things you feel your friend, partner, husband, etc. are doing to you, are likely what you do to God, OR the things you lack in your relationship, you should be seeking from God.
The Ultimate Relationship